10 Sex Toys Every Swinger Couple Should Have 

10 Sex Toys Every Swinger Couple Should Have I have written previously about sex toys for swingers and what to take to a swingers club, but this article will give you my top 10 Sex Toys Every Swinger Couple Should Have. 

It doesn’t matter if you enjoy swinging in a club or prefer private meets; in this article, I will be giving you my top picks and personal favourites that I know will make great additions to your swinger sex life! Here you will find adult toys for every occasion, regardless of how you like to get down and with whom! 

And rest assured, you know these have been tried and tested by me, TKG. (ok so I can’t test a cock ring, but I have associates)

So, what are you waiting for? Let’s talk all things sex toy! 

For this article, I have teamed up with the sex toy experts over at passionbugs, a company committed to two things I know you will love. 

First, they offer affordable, quality products at very competitive prices and then pass the savings onto you, the customer. And second, They don’t just sell sex toys but also tell you exactly how to use them and what each one will add to your sex life! From Nipple Pasties to Lubricants, let passionbugs teach you everything they know! 

Sex Swing. 

If you haven’t used a sex swing, you need to fix that asap! One of the best times I had swinger sex was with the use of the swing. Being weightless and having sex with two people was quite the experience (I was in the swing, and I had a guy on each end). Experiment and get creative with a swing; the possibilities are endless! Sometimes you do find swings in clubs, but if you were to meet swingers in a private setting, you could easily incorporate a swing. Easy to install and simple to use, I don’t see any reason not to have one! 

Cock Ring.

If you want a simple way to last longer whilst swinging, then a cock ring is a straightforward means to make you stay harder for longer. From ones that vibrate and are fully adjustable to solid metal ones and those with built-in bunny ears. If you want to last longer whilst swinging (A question that many men ask me), then using a cock ring is an excellent way of achieving this. For many guys, the thought of being in a swingers club is daunting enough without the added pressure of being unable to stay hard and last all night. By using a cock ring, you fix this!

Wand. 

Honestly, I don’t know anyone who doesn’t love a wand! They do make appearances at clubs quite often. Still, I also know that the thought of having something that you need to plug into the mains (and let’s face it, they can be quite big to carry around) is a bit daunting, especially if it’s your first time in a club and you don’t want to whip it out your bag and start looking for a plug!

Luckily, wands are now smaller and rechargeable, and despite this, they don’t compromise on delivering powerful vibrations. Here are two wands that I love; they are both rechargeable and more petite in size. The Rocks Off Rechargeable Wand Vibrator, I think you will agree with me, is gorgeous! With its ten-speed settings, flexible head and fully waterproof material, you can use this little gem anywhere! 

The other one that I’m buzzing about (sorry I couldn’t resist) is the Bodywand USB Pink 6 Inch Massager. 

This super cute vibrator is perfect for taking to clubs as its small size means it will fit into a handbag or suitcase if you are travelling- as I often do. It is quick to charge, easy to use and delivers powerful, precise pleasure. 

Bullet Vibe. 

A swinger girl staple! I always take my bullet vibe with me when going to clubs. My newest addition is this, My Rocks-Off 7 Speed Bullet Vibrator in Rainbow. The fact that it is fully waterproof makes it perfect for swinger parties and steamy hot tub sessions. Its small size and sleek design make it perfect for slipping into your bag. It is easy to turn on and incorporate into your swinger play, with no fiddling with various buttons or plugs. Plus, I’m totally in love with the colour! 

Strap On. 

So, I don’t know if you read my members only on the swinger couple I recently met who had brought their strap on along to a party I was attending? No? Don’t worry, you can check it out here! Strap ons are proving to be poplar swinger toys, especially with couples who are looking to get single girls involved. *oops, spoiler alert!* There are several different designs I love and, incidentally, own! One of these is this very versatile unisex strap on dildo set. It comes with two different dildos and is suitable to be used by men and women, on men or women. However, you like to play when you swing, from pegging to power control; one reason I love a strap on is that they offer a lot of possibilities.

People often think that strap on play is just for lesbian couples or for pegging; let me assure you when it comes to strap on sex and swinging, there’s a lot to learn. Curious to find out? Click here! 

Butt Plug. 

Regardless of your gender or sexuality, your butt is an extremely sensitive part of the body, and there are loads of different options when it comes to anal pleasure. Now, you may feel a little self-conscious using a butt plug in a large club setting, The last thing you want is for it to slip out mid orgy, but they can make sexy additions when you have more intimate swinger sex. I, of course, have a few firm favourites that I like to have used on me. One of which is this Precious Metals Smooth Silver Butt Plug. The fact that it’s a metal butt plug means it responds well to temperature play and is so easy to clean. Once I arrived at a house party, and the hostess already had some ‘on ice’. 

Finger Vibrator. 

Now, this is one that, once you try it, you will want to keep using it! It’s waterproof, powerful and it makes such a great addition to swinger sex.

If you enjoy clitoral orgasms, you will love this as it’s specially designed to give powerful waves of pleasure and feel amazing against your skin. Great if you are already enjoying penetrative sex, as it fits snugly onto your finger. All you have to do is guide your hand. I highly recommend it! The one that I have came complete with batteries, so all I had to do was open and enjoy!

Condoms And Lube.

Ok, so not technically toys, but you must choose the right type of condoms and lubricants. If you are not sure which products are suitable for which type of toy or play, don’t panic, passionbugs have a dedicated guide on helping you choose the perfect condoms, lubes and massage oils. 

When swinging, I love to take a small bottle of water-based lube, as it’s fuss-free to use, and the strawberry one smells delicious! 

Strapless Strap On.

The first time I tried a strapless strap on, I had my reservations. I wasn’t convinced it would stay in. And, as a bit of a strap on supporter, I already was quite happy using my old school style strap on. However, this was a game-changer! If you have never used a strapless strap on, then I suggest you give it a try. 

Without the straps and harness, it delivers intimacy on a whole new level. Plus, both parts vibrate and it stimulates the clitoris of the wearer, so I can’t begin to tell you what using it feels like. 

I have used it on both male and female partners, and the strapless design enables you to move your bodies together freely.  

Bondage Toys.

Now it wouldn’t be me if I didn’t include some of my favourite BDSM toys, and when it comes to swinging clubs, most I have attended have had a dedicated BDSM playroom. 

Some have been kitted out with whips, floggers, and all manner of kinky gadgets, whereas others have been more ‘dungeon-esque’ and have featured flogging benches, cages, and St Andrews crosses. So, it’s safe to say that many swingers love BDSM! 

If you want to take your own BDSM equipment to an event or party but aren’t sure what to take, let me share something with you that I love!

The secret bondage kit contains a whip, two sets of wrist & ankle cuffs, one breathable ball gag, 10 metres of bondage rope and a blindfold. All neatly organised in a storage tin! Perfect for taking along to a swinger party. As with most things BDSM related, I don’t recommend whipping out the more hardcore toys with new swingers, but I’m sure a little light spanking would entice them!  

Items You Probably Won’t Use

When I was researching this article, I came across several pieces of content that recommended a few items that I personally wouldn’t endorse. From Sybian machines plug-in toys to hardcore BDSM equipment such as medical play and electro play, I wouldn’t recommend these types of equipment as they are quite specialist. 

Often Sybian machines can be found in well-equipped dungeons and are considered popular among masters and mistresses alike. 

Who Are passionbugs?

Passionbugs are a company that takes sexual pleasure seriously. They encourage sexual wellness and offer a welcoming and informative site that offers great advice on all the products they stock.  

If you are confused about cockrings or curious about collars, passionbugs not only stock a huge range of products, but they also provide their customers with information about their products but how to use enjoy them and what each item is for. If you want to learn about latex and lubricants or get smart about spankers, these are the people to ask. 

Affordable and Top Quality 

Great sex should not have to cost, and all too often, sex toys can come with hefty price tags. passionbugs, however, are different. They offer affordable, quality products at very competitive prices-one of the ways they do this is by keeping their overheads low, which means their savings are passed on directly to their customers- you! 

Eco-Friendly Sex? 

Just when you thought passionbugs couldn’t get any better (top quality, affordable sex toys), they do! They strive to offer the greenest of options. Not only do they stock eco-friendly vibrators, Yes, really. They also minimise the amount of plastic packaging that they use. So you can enjoy their products knowing that the only thing to be heating up is your sex life and not the planet! 

Founder, Elizabeth says ‘Our driving ambition is to support the ever-increasing desire to reduce our industry’s carbon footprint. We promise never to use unnecessary plastic, wrapping, or harmful materials here at passionbugs. We will deliver your purchases safely and discreetly to your doorstep.

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