First Time Swingers How To Be A Success Online!
First Time Swingers How To Be A Success Online!Before I decided to write this post, I asked my fans and followers to share their experiences of both swinger websites and swinger dating profiles. I want to say a huge thank you to everyone who joined in the conversation over on Discord.
The feedback I received was a bit of an eye-opener and helped shed some light on where many people tend to go wrong when making an online profile and when approaching other swingers on the sites.
Now, not only did I ask people to share their experiences with me, but I also asked my followers on Instagram what they would like help with. Again, the feedback I received was plentiful and positive.
I want to make sure that I am providing you with the answers you are searching for and giving you an accurate insight into what’s hot and what’s not. I want to make sure that no matter who you are, or how you like to get down, you have all the information you need to create a profile that increases your chances of swinger success online. The last thing you want is to be lumped in with all the fake users, who have a lot of fantasies but spend hours in private with their hand.
The Problems For First Time Swingers
From the feedback I received and the insights shared with me, I identified these key areas of frustration for swingers, and especially first-time swingers. Although many of the people I spoke to had genuine intentions, they were still facing some difficulties when making their profiles; I knew that if the genuine people were struggling, something had to be done and fast! The areas I identified that are causing people grief are the following:
- Difficulty knowing what to write in their profiles to make them enticing and engaging.
- Unsure about what pictures to include.
- Help writing messages to other swingers and how to strike up a conversation and connection with them online.
- Advice sought on how to create a profile that is more attractive to the opposite sex.
How And Why I Can Help First Time Swingers
Why should you listen to me? Well, I have used swinger dating sites as both a couple and a single woman. I have reviewed a fair few and made content based on which are best for couples, singles, men and women. I know which are best for serious swingers, kinky swingers and those looking to get involved in the BDSM scene. I know where to find the virtual parties, what sites are best for video, and which are all about naughty chat.
I have seen the good, the bad and the ugly when it comes to swinger dating profiles, sometimes in a professional capacity…and sometimes when I’m browsing just for fun!
I know what it’s like to be a first-time swinger. To be completely over faced; not knowing what to write to people, unsure of how to make your profile stand out. I know what it feels like to be awkward when chatting online, thinking about what to say and how to connect with chemistry.
The reason I started thiskindagirl.com was to help people who were facing the same frustrations I did when I started swinging. I want you to have success. I don’t want people to screw up their chances of meeting people simply because they are not sure what to write!
Through the years, I have learnt a lot about men and women’s brains and what we look for in the opposite sex.
Now it is time for me to share my insights with you so that you have First Time Swinger Success Online!
First Time Swingers- My Guide For Success
As well as my article, I have also created a 5 page, downloadable pdf for one for men, one for women and one for couples. Click here to access it, and click the ‘Extras’ tab to get the download. You don’t even have to be a paid member to access it!
Within the pdf, you will discover my CHEAT SHEET, designed to teach you how to make your swinger profile stand out from all the others!
I have done the hard work for you, meaning you can spend less time wondering what to write and more time having fun!
My advice will set your profile apart from all the fakes and time wasters.
The PDF contains all my insights on the following:
- What women look for in male swingers.
- What men look for in female swingers (this really surprised me!).
- What couples look for when searching online.
- How to be enticing and engaging for men, women and couples!
- What you need to do in order to be successful swingers.
- Easy to use scripts that can be followed when writing your profile and messaging other people.
- Advice on what photos to include and what pictures you need to avoid if you want any chance of success!
- Discover how to attract genuine swingers!
- How to tell if someone is a time-waster!
Top Tips On Making A Great Profile
Unless you spend time and effort making a great profile, you can’t expect to receive anything other than mediocre responses. If your profile is a list of your measurements and contains one or two pictures that are explicit and close up, that is all you will be seen as, and people will be very quick to judge you.
The more engaging and enticing you are, the easier it will be for people to gauge your character. If you are a serious swinger looking to meet genuine swingers, then make sure your profile is an accurate representation of that.
We all know that there are profiles out there that are very generic; they say things like;
‘I’m just looking for fun lol.’
Well, no shit, Sherlock!
You and 3,000 others on here, mate! Next!
Any serious swingers don’t even give these type of profiles the time of day. Even if your intentions are genuine, you need to make sure your online presence represents that.
My PDF is available to download from my products and membership platform. Click on the ‘Extras’ tab to access it. Download it straight to your phone and copy and paste the information directly to your swinger dating profile. I have made it quite straight forward to use; simply select whichever fits you best and get started!Come and get involved on social!