Games For Swinger Couples

Games For Swinger Couples. Did you know there has been a game developed by a swinger couple for swinger couples with the sole purpose of making the transition from flirting to sexy time a much easier one? 

No? 

Well, there is! And I, your swinger girl on the inside, recently received an email from the said company; it went a little like this…

Dear Thiskindagirl, I just came across your work on Medium… I love your articles! I think your take on love/sex and what it means to be a swinger or involved in the lifestyle is spot on!

My husband and I got into the swinging lifestyle about 10-years ago. After a few anxiety-riddled dates with other couples, we came up with a solution to a problem we were having –and one experienced by many swingers, the problem of breaking the ice. 

So, we decided to fill the void and create a couple of simple, easy to carry around card games for adults in the lifestyle, called The Game of Lifestyle.

The first game helps couples get better acquainted in a fun, sexy way. The game “breaks the ice” as players take turns asking provocative questions about each other’s sex life. 

The second card game is designed to get couples playing. The action gets started as players take turns reading cards and carrying out the sexually charged directions. The cards get gradually hotter as the game progresses.

Would you like to receive a pack of the cards yourself and give us some feedback on them? 

Thanks, 

Please let me know, 

Abby. 

Well… how could a girl like me resist? After all, swinger parties, couples and clubs…it’s kind of what I’m all about! 

So, here for you is my honest and rather explicit review of the Game Of Lifestyle swinger game for couples. If you blush easily, look away now! 

Why Swinger Couples May Need A Game?

A question that I get asked a lot is how do you make the transition from regular flirty conversation to getting down to it with another couple? Is there an easier way of having that conversation and moving from sexy socialising to seriously sexy scenarios? Many people have asked me this, and I, too, have struggled with it over the years, highlighting the need for this product. 

Having that conversation is complicated, and sometimes creating the right kind of sexy vibe or atmosphere can prove extremely daunting. It can take a while to become confident in having these conversations with others, especially if you are new to the lifestyle; chances are, you will still be figuring out what you both want to enjoy, never mind how you are all going to get down! I can appreciate the need for a card game like this, as swinging doesn’t have to be scary! 

Using The Cards On A Swingers Date

The Initial Ice Breaker Edition cards could easily be brought along to a first date, to well, break the ice! The questions are informal, flirtatious and are designed to stimulate conversation and build chemistry. Whilst reading through them, they certainly sparked my interest, and I noticed the questions themselves required an emotional response, always great when building rapport with others.

Questions such as ‘Have you had sex in a public place, and where would you want to?’ 

And ‘Have you engaged in role-playing? What would your fantasy role play be?’ 

When these type of questions are asked, they require an emotional response; to answer them fully, the responder needs to consider how they would feel about that scenario or draw from past experiences. In the process of providing the answer, chemistry is built between the players of the game. The more we find out about one another, the more intimate our connection with that person or people becomes. 

Another reason that the cards are great for a date is that they are small, easy to carry and easy to use. They do come with instructions, but all people take turns to ask the questions and the group answers. If you don’t feel comfortable, you can always say ‘pass!’ 

When You Want To Get Hot And Heavy

With three levels of play; hot, hotter and hottest, The Game Of Lifestyle Hot n Heavy Edition will provide you all with brand new sexy scenarios. As with the other pack, this game does come with instructions to follow and recommends that players discuss how ‘hot’ they wish for things to get before they start playing. 

I wouldn’t be inclined to slap these on the table on a first date, but they certainly do turn up the heat nicely on a second or third swinger date!  

‘Hot’ will see you removing articles of clothing and touching other players through their clothes. 

‘Hotter’ will have you kissing other players and helping them get undressed…amongst other things! 

‘Hottest’ well… this one is not for the faint-hearted! From directing your own porn scene to performing oral sex to multiple stimulation, the hottest is for when your feeling naughty! 

The Extra Hot Expansion Pack; For The Rudest Of Swinger Couples 

If you want your swinger action spicier than the hottest chicken in Nandos, then this extra ‘expansion’ pack will be sure to have you reaching for the lube in no time! Within the expansion pack, you can expect to find instructions for double penetration, face sitting, full swap, 69 and my favourite…the golden ticket card (where the individual gets to choose how they would like to orgasm, with whom and where). 

Can Single Swingers Use This Game? 

Yes, as long as there is the same ratio of M/F players, then it can also be used by single people. 

Is It Only For Bisexuals? 

I noticed that many of the cards, especially the hotter, hottest and expansion pack cards, did feature a fair few female Bisexual scenarios. 

You can never assume that all women who swing are Bi, so if you play with straight women or women who dont feel comfortable having sex with women, you can always choose to pass those cards. You can, of course, play with Bisexual men

; there’s no rule to say bi guys aren’t allowed! Just modify the activity! 

Discussing Rules And Boundaries When Playing Swinger Games

As with any swinger scenario, be it a first date, online chat or pulling out the hot and heavy expansion pack, always always, always (I’m being super serious here) discuss rules, limits and boundaries with one another and those involved in the play. I did notice, and that does not sit well with me, is many of the cards feature kissing with tongues. Now, if you know anything about Thiskindagirl, you will know that kissing with tounges is a big no-no for me when I swing. Regardless of whether I’m single or not. I don’t do it, and I don’t particularly appreciate seeing my partner do it if I’m in a relationship. I would ask if my play partners could tone down this particular act so that I’d feel comfortable playing the game. 

Anal? Absolutely! Kissing with tongues? No way! 

As I mentioned, the cards do come with guidelines and advice for making certain boundaries and limits are always followed, and if you are unsure of limits and boundaries when swinging, check out my post on them here! 

Why I Love This Swinger Game And Why You Should Too!

To have a product made by swingers, for swingers, who have been in the exact same situation as yourselves is so reassuring. I think back to when I first started swinging and how I would struggle so much with moving from conversation to getting down to it, or now when so many people ask me for advice, or when I see other newbie swingers wanting to take things further. You don’t have to struggle anymore! 

The great thing about this game, especially the Hot n Heavy Edition, is that it can be used on so many different swinger occasions and can create brand new swinger scenes. If you are stuck for inspiration, reading a few of these cards will have you cooking up all kinds of deliciously debaucherous activities.

Now, I do consider myself a very seasoned swinger; however, no matter how experienced you are in the lifestyle, or open-minded you claim to be, or confident when it comes to making conversation and talking about SEX we all freeze up in social situations! Even I do, all these years later! But, using the cards generates a flirtatious conversation, allowing for sexual chemistry to build and enable all participants to pass if they don’t feel comfortable. Here at thiskindagirl, I’m a big advocator of open and honest and conversation, and sometimes, we all need a little help! When navigating the swinger lifestyle, let these cards do the hard work for you, so all you have to do is enjoy! 

 

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