Open Relationship Coach & Non Monogamy Counselling.

Open Relationship Coach & Non-Monogamy Counselling. Consultations are available for couples and singles, men or women. Regardless of your relationship dynamics, sexual preferences or how you identify; we are all different, I will help you understand the world of Ethical Non-Monogamy.

I will help you with;

  • Discussing swinging with your partner- established partner or a prospective one,
  • Setting Boundaries,
  • Creating the right mindset for successful swinging,
  • Overcoming jealousy issues,
  • Gaining a deeper insight into what swinging entails,
  • Problem solving,
  • Support to overcome fears and become a more confident swinger,
  • Advice on where to find swingers and how to approach them.
  • How to visit a club for the first time.

New/First-Time Swingers Consultations-Your fears, concerns and questions answered by someone who has been in your situation.

Single Swingers Advice- Swinging as a single person can be daunting, trust me I know! Let me teach you all I know to set you up for swinger success.

Help For Swinger Couples– Emotional difficulties, overcoming fears and how to become a rock-solid swinger couple.

What Are The Benefits Of A One To One Consultation?

We are all different and unique and there is no right or wrong way to enjoy a non-monogamous relationship. What feels right for one person might be the opposite of what another enjoys. With this in mind, my guidance and support are tailor-made around you; your relationship (current or prospective) and what you would like to achieve.

With a personal consultation, you will not only get my expertise and knowledge but also discover the girl behind thiskindagirl as I share with you my past experiences and offer an insight into the swinging world from my inside perspective.

All consultations are strictly confidential and non-judgmental. I offer a personal and professional service, to listen, guide and support you.

Bespoke Advice And Support

I often write about taking people on a journey from ‘Nervous Newbie to Swinger Success’. For some people getting started in the lifestyle is relatively straightforward, whereas for others, getting involved in the swinger scene is not as straightforward as simply turning up at a club.

With this in mind, I wanted to ensure my clients had a bespoke and personal service. Someone who listens and offers advice that really suites them, after all, one mans orgy is another mans obstacle!

How Do Sessions Take Place?

All sessions take place online, I always try and work around your schedule. Once you have selected to make a booking, you will receive a booking form that you need to fill in and email back to

Completing the booking form prior to the sessions means I will have a better understanding of what you would like to achieve. I always want to give you the best possible help and advice. I will then email you back with confirmation of the session and send you a link for the meeting.

Relationship Counselling Services

Not only do I offer an open relationship consultation service, but I am also a qualified relationship counsellor, with an interest in Ethical Non-Monogamy.

I wanted to make sure the help and guidance I was offering my clients was not only effective but also professional and most importantly, correct!

I can help you overcome conflicts, negative situations, cycles of continual blame and offer my support to increase emotional intimacy.

You don’t have to be in the swinger lifestyle to want my help, I am trained to support people who are in all types of relationships, monogamous or not. Due to my background and experience of ethical non-monogamy, I have extensive experience in dealing with issues such as jealousy, envy and self-comparison and self-esteem.

I can help you to;

  • Understand hidden emotion
  • Make sense of the emotions that you are experiencing
  • Gain clarity of wants and needs within your relationship
  • Work together to overcome the cycle of disconnecting
  • Listen and understand the emotional needs of each partner.

There is a common misconception that you have to be in a relationship and to be facing difficulties before you seek out a relationship therapist.

This couldn’t be further from the truth!

My role as a relationship counsellor is to guide, support and listen to you, regardless of whether you are in a relationship or not. Perhaps you come face to face with the same issues, regardless of the type of relationship you are in? If you are single then sometimes talking about past relationships and situations can help give clarity over the situations you have experienced.

If you find yourself falling into the same patterns, and behaviours, I can help to break these negative cycles and offer an insight into finding a positive solution.

Consultation Fees

All bookings are made through my secure payment site.

£60 an hour for the consultation, I may suggest a few sessions depending on your situation. The fees for each session are to paid, in advance, If you appear on webcam exposing yourself, I will end the call and still take the money, that’s an expensive wank!

I’m looking forward to hearing from you,

thiskindagirl! xx

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