Sexy Swinger Games Guide 

Sexy Swinger Games Guide making the transition from flirting to playtime is not always straight forward. Attending a party or private meet, or hosting your own event can be a bit daunting. 

Getting all your guests in the mood without being too pushy is sometimes tricky! 

It’s a question that I have been asked previously. How do you go about creating the right atmosphere for a swinger party and get all the guests feeling comfortable and sexual? You want to break the ice, but not come on too strong and finding the right balance can be difficult.

Luckily, I have done my research for this article and teamed up with the party experts World of Risque, to bring you this, my Sexy Swinger Games Guide. You will be learning how to break the ice and how to use sexy party games to raise the temperature! As well as my do’s and don’ts to ensure everyone has a great time!

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Set The Swinger Scene

If you are hosting at home or arranging a party, you may wish to spend some time creating the right atmosphere for your swinger party guests. Before we learn about swinger party games, let’s discuss setting the scene. It is important to remember that many people can feel nervous, so be a super host and make sure the surrounding are intimate and informal. Here are my top tips for devising the perfect sexy atmosphere; 

  • Soft lighting is an absolute must! If you are going to be taking your clothes off, and want others to do the same, then think soft, flickering light! If you don’t want to use real candles, then small, battery-powered ones are great for this. Dot them around to create a soft glow. 
  • If you have a few couples attending the party or a mix of couples and singles, the set up a What’s App group where the details are shared for all members. You can add information such as directions and perhaps guidelines to follow, i.e. ‘Dont park in front of number 42,’ A group chat is an easy way for everyone to get familiar with one another ahead of the event. They can also use the chat to discuss limits and boundaries so that everyone is on the same page beforehand. 
  • It’s a nice touch to offer gift bags on arrival to all guests, perhaps with condoms, a blindfold and a little bottle of lube inside? 
  • Recommended by World Of Risque, Music is always ideal for setting a relaxed party mood. Played at a moderate level, so that you’re able to communicate with one another clearly.
  • It’s recommended that the host provides a light buffet (As no person can work on an empty stomach).
  • It’s also best that when all party attendees have arrived names are introduced to one another. This will create familiarity and get guests communicating.

When To Introduce Swinger Party Games

It’s essential to bear in mind when hosting a swinger party that you don’t want to feature games that are too explicit or go against peoples personal rules and limits. (later I will share with you what games not to play) Neither do you want to spring games on people the minute they walk through the door. If it’s their first swinging experience, this may be too much for some first-time couples! It is always best to let people relax and then gently break the ice with some conversation starters.

However, suppose you don’t take steps to encourage conversation. In that case, you may find that couples become closed off and only talk to one another as they may be feeling nervous about approaching other swinger couples. 

Swinger Party Games For Breaking The Ice 

  • As each of your guests arrive ask them to write down anonymously, what they would like to experience that evening on a slip of paper. Fold up the paper and place it into a jar, or hat or whatever. When the guests have all written on the paper, get everyone’s attention and read out the pieces of paper one at a time. As they are anonymous, no one will know who’s said what. It’s an excellent method to let everyone hear what their fellow party-goers are hoping to experience, plus it stimulates conversation and curiosity.
  • This next one is a sexy take on a classic party game. Take a post-it note and write on it a sex toy or item of lingerie that most people would be familiar with (toys such as a rabbit or but plug, a corset or anal beads) and attach it to a guests forehead. (without them seeing what is written) The other guests have to describe what the item is and they attempt to guess it. By keeping it straight forward, it will be a fun icebreaker that gets everyone laughing! This is a simple method of getting your guests to engage with one another and creates the right vibe for the night. 
  • Recommended by World Of Risque, Explore your guests’ minds with an original sexy bingo. Each individual receives a pen/pencil and a piece of paper, ask each individual to write nine numbers down between one to fifty. The host then pulls out each individual number from the hat. When the guest’s number is called they need to shout out either a sexual position, sexual noise or a sexual word. Each guest has to use a different phase than the previous person. Once the individual has claimed all nine numbers/full house they have to shout out ” I’ve cum or I’m cumming” this then indicates the winner!

Party Games To Get Your Guests In The Mood 

After the ice has been broken, you may wish to introduce one of these popular games into the mix to turn up the heat even more! 

Sex Trivia Game 

This sex trivia card game is perfect for small parties where the guests want to be social as well as sexy. It’s a fun addition and will get your guests chatting, laughing and relaxing! Split the couples into men vs women or two couples per team. Have them read out sexy trivia cards and see which team is naughty and nerdy! 

Lingerie/ Sexy Outfit Twister

Notice how I didn’t say naked twister? I think you should always leave it up to the guests to decide if they want to remove all their clothes or not.! Underwear twister is a great x rated alternative, especially if your guests are feeling a little shy. Spin the little wheel and see what positions you can twist yourselves into. Twister is a firm favourite at vanilla parties and gets you up close and personal with other guests. When you add swingers to the mix, it doesn’t take long for things to get steamy pretty quickly! 

Strip Jenga

Ask your guests to divide into teams, and as each Jenga piece is removed, should a block from the tower tumble, an item of clothing is removed as a forfeit. Jenga can be bought easily from amazon, no questions asked! As each item of clothing is removed, your guests will feel even more horny! 

Erotic Dice Games 

If you have a small number of couples, then using erotic dice can be a sexy way to get people enjoying one another bodies. This is providing that all participants are happy to be involved in the playtime. Some couples may want to watch, and that’s fine too. Take it turns to roll the dice, let it make suggestions and then act out whatever is suggested! You could roll all of them at once if you are feeling adventurous. For couples who are wanting to participate in same room swap only then avoid the ‘location’ dice as it lists several locations that may be in private, away from the rest of the group. 

Couple Game 2019

Not for the faint-hearted, this board game is suitable for between 2-8 couples and features both a soft and a hard version. If you have a group of experienced swingers who all have similar boundaries or confident couples, then this board game might be right up their street! The soft tasks range from fondling to performing oral, whereas the hard limits version includes blindfolded gang bang scenarios! Not one for the faint-hearted, so proceed with caution. 

Musical Erotic Statues

From World Of Risque; This gives your guests the opportunity to mix with one another and share sexual expression. Get everyone on their feet in the centre of the room. The host selects their favourite tunes, whilst the guests dance, stopping the track as and when. When the host stops the track, each guest has to form a sexual pose. The host then selects the least interesting pose which eliminates the guest out the game. This process is repeated until the last guest is standing becomes the winner!

What Swinger Games Not To Play

There are some games that although are suggested on other swinger lifestyle sites as being suitable for swinger parties, I advise against playing, as I feel they cross too many boundaries. At most swinger parties there will be a mix of people who’s limits and experience levels are all different and sometimes, if they are suddenly put on the spot to divulge in a ‘truth’ or dare’ scenario can crumble. Even now, I wouldn’t say I like truth or dare or spin the bottle type games even with regular friends, as I feel they are quite confrontational. Dares are not my idea of hot fun, but I know many people enjoy them!

Another game that I would advise against playing is ‘seven minutes of heaven’. Being locked away with a stranger for 7 minutes is not my idea of great swinger sex, and if you only swing in the same room as your partner, then this is way overstepping the boundaries. 

Dropping your car keys into a bowl and having a random woman pick a key out is an adult game that died a death in the 1980’s. I mean, there may be a slight chance that you may hit it off with whoever you choose, but there’s an even greater chance you won’t. There are plenty of other ways to have fun and hook up with other swingers, so the car keys technique is best avoided. 

I decided not to include strip poker when drawing up my list of sexy games for swingers. I believe there are a lot more exciting games to be played where the players converse with one another, thus forming ideas about what each person likes as opposed to poker with a twist. Yes, you may totally love poker, but for me, I want to know what turns on my potential swinging partners, before our clothes come off! 

Swinger Games In A Hot Tub

If you are lucky enough to have a hot tub then getting intimate and having fun in the bubbly water might heighten your senses. If you are feeling a little nervous about getting completely naked then removing your swimwear as the bubbles cover you is very relaxing indeed!

For an intimate, kinky game that encourages people to explore and touch, take a bottle and fill it so it is weighted. Pass the bottle between you as you sit in a circle in the hot tub, but the sexy twist is that you can’t touch the bottle with your hand. You have to use your body or body parts to pass the bottle person to person! A timer could be set, and you could have a forfeit of having to remove your swimwear if you fail to complete it within the time limit. 

Sexy Swinger Games Guide- In Conclusion 

Including a few swinger party games to break the ice and get the party started is a great idea. Swinger parties can be nerve-wracking for even experienced couples. When researching this topic, I found that many other swinger site posts listed drinking games as swinger party games. Or that drink was used as a forfeit. (Usually combined with stripping) Although I don’t discourage drinking, neither do I recommend drinking in excess when swinging. Having a few drinks is fine, but doing shots as forfeits is not ideal when having swinger sex. 

Always consider that swinger party games are great, but don’t focus on the games too much, or rely on them too heavily. I suggest a few ice breaker games to set the tone and get the conversation flowing as opposed to diving straight into a hardcore board game! As with all swinger situations, you have to be conscious that everyone will have different boundaries and rules they follow when swinging. 

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