Honey! I’m home! That’s how it felt to be back in Le Boudior on Saturday night! If you are looking for Swinger Clubs In London, then look no further! Here is my exclusive review (with all the juicy bits left in of course) of the opening night for Le Boudoir Club on the 22nd August.

 I can’t begin to tell you how excited I am to be bringing you this post! After many months of restrictions, bans and a very uncertain future, I can now tell you that I had the pleasure of attending Le Boudoirs opening night and this ladies and gentlemen is the full low down on swinging after lockdown.

 If you are looking for a sex party in London, the reopening came at just the right time! After reading my post, you will know what to expect, how to make it safe, and how to make it happen. Whether you are a first-time swinger or looking to get back into the lifestyle, I have all the answers in this, my Swinger Clubs London post. So, if you are sitting comfortably, I shall begin. 

Is Swinging After Lockdown Safe? 

As we all know, 2020 has taken an unexpected turn. World wide we have all felt the effects of the coronavirus pandemic. Sadly some people have lost their lives, and others have become extremely unwell due to contracting the virus. For a while, the world stood still and waited. We all took steps to stop the spread, protect ourselves and our loved ones and help and support those risking their lives to save the lives of the most vulnerable. 

Quite rightly our priorities changed and swinging, kinky sex and ‘ the lifestyle’ all had to take a back seat. However, with changes in legislation and a decrease in coronavirus cases and fatalities, I can now announce that the swinging scene has returned to London. Hurrah! So, is swinging safe in London? 

Coronavirus and Swinger Clubs In London

In regular life, ( I do have a vanilla job) I have spent a great deal of time over the last few months reviewing COVID risk assessments, implementing guideline changes and overseeing all COVID safety measures and staff training. Im sure so many of you will be familiar with the steps taken by restaurants, bars and gyms to ensure their guests, customers and staff remain safe. I found that the actions taken by Le Boudoir were very similar to those I oversee in the workplace. Before booking, I checked out the COVID information found online on their website and completed a short health questionnaire before attending. It was stated that guests would be having their temperature checked by a non-contact temperature gun upon arrival and that hand sanitiser would be available to all guests when arriving and be available for use throughout the night. This put my mind at ease, especially the fact that all guests would be having their temperature taken, before entering the club. 

Booking The Party

Due to the COVID guidelines, the party was advertised to couples from the same household and members of the same social bubble. Booking the party was done through Eventbrite, and after booking one couples ticket for £75, S and I then completed the COVID questionnaire. Usually, when attending swinging events and parties, I contact the host to reserve a place then pay on arrival, but with the new regulations in place, this was not an option. There were also tickets available for Friday night parties, where single people are also welcome to attend, so if that is your thing, do check the website out for details. 

The Day Before The Party

As with any swinger party, I like to pre-plan, organise and prepare myself, before the day of the event. So this, being the first one I had attended in months, was no exception.

Plus, I was attending with S, with whom I hadn’t been to a swinging party event with yet ( we met reasonably recently). On top of this, I also wanted to make sure I gained as much insight into the clubs reopening as I could, so you, my lovely readers would have all the information you need when considering visiting a sex club after lockdown. 

My usual routine of getting my nails, brows and waxing done was all completed on Friday afternoon, after a long session in the gym. 

I then checked through my swinger club outfits and called S. 

We discussed what we should wear. With it being the first party in a long time, I didn’t want to go OTT and wear next to nothing, plus S told me he was taking me out for dinner beforehand. With this in mind, I placed my body stocking back in the drawer! 

The rules and etiquette guide, found on Le Boudoirs website, stated that women should wear sexy attire and heels are encouraged, whilst men should stick to the dress code guidelines of smart casual. For more advice on what to wear when swinging for men and women, check out my post

Opening my wardrobe, I pulled out two dresses, both tight and slinky. One was royal blue, backless and with lace detailing on the front, and the other was olive green, and slightly longer. ( If you follow my Instagram, you will see my whole outfit choice! 

The Day Of The Party

S is an absolute darling! And, amongst other things, including boyfriend, loyal sub and cup of tea in the morning maker, he also drives me about in his big fancy car and getting to the party was no exception. We pulled up closer to the venue, and with it only being 9.15 pm, decided to have dinner beforehand. The area around Aldgate, close to where the club is situated, has seen massive redevelopment over the last few years.

From where we parked the car, the walk to the club was through a smart, and newly built piazza, complete with a Curzon cinema, upmarket coffee shops, and busy, buzzing restaurants. We chose to eat in Amber restaurant, as the food was light, Mediterranean and service, quick. We made a note that this would be an excellent place for a swinger first date! As I sipped on a Hendricks, Tonic and cucumber, the butterflies in my stomach fluttered. S smiled at me, and we clinked glasses. 

On Arrival At The Club

Upon arrival at the club, we pressed the buzzer and stated our couples username. There was a click, and the door opened. 

We were greeted by a doorman, who in all reality was probably more suited to work as a bouncer in a nightclub. Instead of being greeted with ‘Hello good evening’ we were greeted with ‘Have you booked?’ 

Luckily we are seasoned swingers, but both agreed that for nervous first-timers this approach might be a little daunting.  

After confirming that yes, we had most definitely booked, we were told to ‘wait there’- again, perhaps being asked to ‘kindly take a seat,’ would have been more appropriate? Whilst the doorman fumbled with the forehead temperature gun. 

Temperatures recorded, we crossed the foyer to the reception desk and were asked if our bags could be checked and please could we hand in our phones. S and I both shifted uncomfortably. We had brought along a few ‘items’ to be used, and suddenly I felt my cheeks redden as I blushed. ( an unusual occurrence for me) It was then explained that our bags needed checking to ensure we weren’t bringing any alcohol in with us. ( Previously there was a BYOB policy, but with this being their new venue, they now had a bar instead) Bags checked and phones handed in, S paid a £20 deposit for a locker, and we both used hand sanitiser before entering the bar area. 

In The Club

Walking from the reception into the club was like slipping on that sexy black dress you reserve for special occasions. It felt sexy, alluring and naughty. The lights had been turned down low, and unlike the seating area in their old venue, (which was bathed in suggestive red) these new tones were deep blues and purples and created an air of relaxed sophistication. After our slightly abrupt greeting, ( S likened it to passport control) we were now free to browse all the goodies of duty-free! Approaching the bar, we were greeted by the host, who has known us both for several years. As always, he charmed us, gave us a rundown of the club and made us feel instantly at home. He told us that up to 30 couples were expected to attend and that if we could stick to playing with one pair at a time, this would comply with the social distancing rules. 

I made my way to a plush, pale pink sofa and sank into it, whilst S ordered me a drink from the bar. As I cast my eyes around the room, there were perhaps three or four other couples seated around the bar, and although each table was an acceptable distance apart, the area still felt intimate. At various locations around the room were small pump dispensers of hand sanitiser, tissues and wipes, so that guests could continue to adhere to safe hygiene practices whilst chatting. I also noticed that there were members of staff visibly doing extra cleaning of door handles and contact surfaces. Although this was encouraging to see, S later told me he found it a bit off-putting and almost clinical. Although we both agreed that it was also a sign of the times and that if you wanted to swing, you had to be prepared to mix an incredibly intimate act side by side with masked cleaners armed with bottles of disinfectant spray, continually doing the rounds. 

A pianist was booked to perform for the first few hours of the evening, and whilst other couples arrived, chatted and relaxed, he began to play. Although the live music was a nice touch, in reality, we both agreed that it was far too loud for such an intimate setting, and in some respects, it killed the seductive vibe that had been created, especially when he launched into ‘ sweet caroline’. Some couples seemed to enjoy the rendition; however, so perhaps it was more the fact that it was merely not to mine and S’s tastes. After finishing our drinks( S reported back that they were reasonably priced), we decided to explore the club properly and made our first point of call the private playrooms. 

The Bathrooms And Changing Facilities In The Club 

I had to check out the bathrooms and changing facilities in the newly reopened and refurbished club! And, I was pleased to see the new, welcome addition of a shower room and piles of fluffy towels. The male and female toilets are slick modern and plentiful! In the previous Le Boudoir club, the toilets had been a little worse for wear. But along with the shiny new bar, playrooms and dungeon equipment, modern sparkling bathrooms have been fitted complete with fancy skincare products, towels, and of course, hand sanitiser! The changing rooms are spacious and well lit and are located downstairs, before the dungeon play area. 

The Facilities 

Leaving the soft surrounds of the bar (and the pianist) we took the stairs leading upward, past the balcony that overlooks the bar; where a few couples were spying on new arrivals, and up towards the private playrooms. The sounds of downstairs faded away, and the soft flickering glow beckoned us forward. The first of the rooms had a large bed to one side, and a wand was plugged in and placed suggestively on the pillow, an excellent addition, I thought. The next of the playrooms was even more exciting and was decked out as an office, or library, complete with a desk and chair. I grabbed S’s hand and pulled him to me, pushing him back against the desk. I knew we could have some excellent role play fun in here! Further down the corridor was another private playroom with a bed, ready and waiting. As we neared the end of the hall, A large glossily painted door came into view.

We stepped from the dark, secretive landing and into a gorgeous couples playroom, With high ceilings, sumptuous drapes and more soft, flickering lights. There were four double beds, positioned against the edges of the room, each with plenty of space around it to play. I suppose with having to limit play to only one other couple at a time, they didn’t want to encourage a mass orgy, ( upstairs in the old club was great for orgies! ) but I could easily see how useful this space would be as the night progressed. Plus when we can play with more people, this space is perfect! The only downside was that on each bed instead of there being soft bedding and scatter cushions, there were rather unsightly plastic sheets. We presumed that this was a COVID related measure, but sadly, it did kill the mood a little bit when we did play on them ( more on that later). 

Leaving the upstairs, we took the solid stone staircase all the way down and into what would have been the lower ground floor, and I guess original cella; quite fitting for the dungeon, I thought. ( I particularly liked the original arches, still in place, and with beds nestled underneath; they offered a small amount of privacy whilst still being ‘public’) Walking past the showers and changing rooms, we entered the dungeon play space, and the first space we came to I was pleased to see, housed the sex swing. I noted there was a bottle of sanitiser spray and tissues on a small shelf next to the swing. Moving on, we came to a play space complete with shackles, attached to the low ceiling, full-length mirrors, a spanking bench, a bed at the far side. Immediately I grabbed S’s wrists and fastened him to them, grinning as I did so. Walking over to the spanking bench, I picked up the cane that was hanging on the wall and ran my fingers over the solid wood. I was already cooking up plans for S, but I still hadn’t finished exploring.

Leaving him shackled ( he’s a good sub) I walked into the next play space and was pleased to see the St Andrews Cross sitting proudly against the wall. Sadly, the cage that I have previously used ( and was looking forward to using again) was no longer part of the equipment. Close to the St Andrews Cross was a wall complete with glory holes; a door at one end gave you access to the other side. I walked back toward S, the freshly painted white walls bathed in deep red light. The dungeon space felt intimate, yet spacious and a lot more relaxed than it had in the previous club. Undoing S’s wrists, we made our way back up to the main bar area.

How We Played

 Approaching the bar, we could see that more couples had arrived, and the atmosphere, that was previously relaxed and playful was growing ever more raunchy. A blond-haired girl twirled seductively around a pole in the far corner, and some couples had changed from their already sexy evening wear to even sexier outfits. We chatted to another couple at the bar as our eyes lingered across the gorgeous men and women. Finishing our drinks, I turned to S and grabbed his hand. Our first point of call was the dungeon, and I wasted no time in heading to the St Andrews Cross and binding his wrists. Once I was satisfied he was secured, I began to spank him and watched as he grew hard, every time my palm struck against him.

I teased S for a while, whilst different couples came in and out the dungeon. He was begging for me to use him, and with this in mind, I slipped the shackled from his wrists, and we made our way upstairs to the large playroom. 

Two things about S and I. The first being that neither of us is shy and the second, I’m in charge. Upstairs there were already quite a few couples playing, but still only in small, socially acceptable bubbles. To our right, a woman was laying on the bed and was receiving pleasure from her husband; I approached her and asked if we could join in. After a brief discussion ( always got to talk about these things with potential playmates) I knelt between her legs and enjoyed her. As I did so, I pulled S’s face into me from behind and felt his tongue caressing me. We played with the couple for a while longer, before heading to one of the beds. 

Afterwards, we headed back down to the dungeon. ( it was quickly proving to be my favourite space) This time round I shackled S to the restraints hanging from the ceiling and proceeded to undress and then spank him. Remembering the cane that was hanging up, I crossed the dungeon and plucked it from its place on the wall.

S gasped as the cane stung his ass and back, I showed him how turned on I was, and he begged me to use him. The dungeon was now busy with couples enjoying the equipment, and a few curious couples chose to play close to us. Being the confident girl I am, I tugged off my tight olive green dress and continued to dom S, in my heels, bra and thong. As I did so, a young couple next to us began to play, with her performing oral sex on her knees. They watched us, and us them. It was a huge turn on! 

On Leaving The Club

A little while later, at around 2 am, we were both beginning to feel exhausted from the night’s events, and although the club stays open until 3 am, we decided to call it a night. Heading to the reception, we asked to retrieve our belongings be refunded the £20 we had paid for the locker. In some weird mix up, we were nearly handed someone else’s bag, which was slightly concerning, as S had had to leave his car keys and house keys in the bag we brought. It would have been an absolute disaster had the wrong person walked off with his keys. We said goodnight to the hosts and stepped out into the August evening. Crossing the piazza once again, we made our way to S’s car. Opening the door, I slid into the passenger’s side seat and took off my heels. 

 In Conclusion

The owners have worked exceptionally hard to get Le Boudoir back on its feet. I was relieved that it hadn’t succumbed to the impact of the Corona Virus pandemic. It really is one of the best upmarket and most desirable clubs on the scene.

Yes, the COVID regulations made it a little hard to have a full-on orgy, and yes perhaps the Front of House staff need a little training in guest relations, but overall, it was a job well done! Throughout the night, we had access to hand sanitiser and handwashing facilities as well as spray disinfectant that could be utilised before using any beds/ equipment. Yes, the COVID regulations meant that the beds had to have to wipe down sheets, and no this didn’t feel particularly sexy, but it wasn’t the worst thing to have to deal with. Pretty much all couples stuck to playing either with one another or in small groups (as advised on arrival), and this proved perfectly enjoyable. 

Will we back to LB? Absolutely! Are we put off by having to adhere to the government guidelines? Certainly not! The guests are upmarket, the surroundings are sumptuous and the atmosphere electric! 

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7 thoughts on “Swinger Clubs In London – Exclusive Review of Le Boudoir

  1. Hi me and my new girlfriend are wanting to try swinging, for the first time, I’m on fabswingers, recently joined and it seems harder than I originally thought, see if you any tips for 35 year geordie scaffolder living in london, and 32 year Hampshire woman?

  2. Hi me and my new girlfriend are wanting to try swinging, for the first time, I’m on fabswingers, recently joined and it seems harder than I originally thought, see if you any tips for 35 year geordie scaffolder living in london, and 32 year Hampshire woman?

    1. Hi thanks for getting in touch! Building up connections and conversations takes time! The fact that you have discussed it together is a great sign. Always start from the two of you and approach it together, as opposed to one of you seeking out people to swing with. In my experience, together is always best!
      It can take a while to build up a good rapport online, and exchanging messages to build up trust is key. Have you thought about attending any parties? They are opening up now, even if you went just to watch and experience being around others having sex? Check out my latest review and tell me what you think? speak soon thiskindagirl xx

    2. Hello beautiful couple I on fabswingers aswell jason1978. This club is a beautiful club it’s worth every penny and atmosphere is beautiful just go with the flow and enjoy

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