Top 5 Swinger Party Outfits For Women

Top 5 Swinger Party Outfits For Women this post is one that I’m very excited to be making! I get to share with you some of my all-time favourite outfits (get dressed in them and take gorgeous pictures) and, I know that it is a topic that many of you have been asking me. I regularly receive questions that sound a lot like this;

‘Dear thiskindagirl, I love your thigh length boots/ PVC outfit/ this dress, and I want to buy it for my wife; where can I get it?’

Or, something like;

‘I love this look on you; where did you get it from, and when do you wear it?’ 

So with this in mind, and because I like to give you what you ask for, I set about crafting the perfect article, giving you insights into why I chose these particular outfits, what they feel like to wear (they help me get into the swinger mindset) and where you can get your hands on them. 

This article is not just a generic wear this, wear that; I aim to give you a deeper understanding of why I choose the outfits I do, and what you can expect by also wearing them. If my style isn’t exactly your style, don’t worry, I will also be including some alternatives if you prefer something a little less thiskindagirl and more…you! 

So, pull that fitting room curtain across; it’s time to play dress-up with me. 

Corset, Black Lace Knickers and Boots

Outfit Number 1

Where I wore it: Now, this corset is one of my favourite pieces! It’s up there with the boots…so when I combine the two of them..it makes for a next-level outfit! I have worn this buckle up corset to BDSM swinger events, BDSM social events, swinger clubs and photoshoots. 

Why I wore it: It looks great paired with a PVC skirt, wet look leggings, dark skinny jeans, or worn over the top of a sheer top. I’ve also worn it with black lace knickers. One of the reasons I love it so much is that it’s very flattering. It is feminine whilst still being a more ‘dominant outfit. I get a lot of comments on this corset, so I know that people love it! When I wear it, I feel slim, sexy and super assertive! 

Where you can buy it: I have found one that is very similar on the Kinky Angel site. The provocative corset in black features a lace-up back and has detailing on the front and sides.

If you want a corset to wear over your outfit, as I sometimes do when attending social events, I also found this PVC buckle strap waspie corset, which I think you will agree is very sexy indeed! 

Not your thing? Here’s an alternative: If you are not a fan of PVC or vinyl, then they also do a black corset that may be right up your street! It features a zip up front and a lace-up back. I particularly love the zip as it makes it easy to take off should you wish to in a party situation! 

PVC Play Suit and Heels

Outfit Number 2 

Where I wore it: This playsuit was bought for me by one of my loyal subs, and I wore it on many an occasion of me domming him! I have also worn it to a swingers event with stilettos and received a lot of compliments. 

I wore it: Because it was bought for me as a gift, it gave me great pleasure to wear the playsuit when he and I got together for a session. I’m not usually a fan of playsuits or teddys, but this one features a cut out at the front, zip detailing and zips on the shoulders. Plus, it feels fantastic on! You can also attach stockings, should you want to! 

Where you can buy it: You can buy this exact one from kinky angel clothing! (where he bought it from) Just as a heads up, I have a S/M and I’m a size 10, and it’s quite snug! As for the heels, if I’m going all out and wearing this sexy outfit, then the only way is to wear high, strappy stilettos! Check out these for inspiration! 

Not your thing? Here’s an alternative: If you don’t fancy strutting around in the PVC option, I also found this lace, long-sleeved teddy that could easily be worn as a top with a skirt in a swinger party, meaning you can easily go from sophisticated to sexy if you fancy taking off some clothes, without feeling too ‘naked.’

Black PVC Dress and Boots

Outfit Number 3

Where I wore it: Ah, I love this dress! I wore it to meet a swinger couple who had arranged a small party in an apartment. On that occasion, I wore it with heels. I then also wore it for a swingers BDSM event, where I wore it with my thigh high boots! 

Why I wore it: it’s skin-tight, it’s short, and it features a lowcut cleavage. This dress ticks all the boxes! 

Where you can buy it: If you are looking to splash out on a special outfit, then this dress is worth every penny! You can get it here

Not looking to spend this much? Here’s an alternative: If you want to look skin tight and sexy without breaking the bank, then this Cottelli collection dress is a great option! 

Red Corset, Stockings, Heels

 Outfit Number 4

Where I wore it: This is a corset that I have worn to many different swinger parties over the years! It’s an outfit that I always feel comfortable in and can be worn to both private parties and large club events. If the dress code states ‘sexy’ or ‘lingerie’, then this is usually what I will wear! 

Why I wore it: I absolutely love it! I love the bow detailing, I love the lace-up back, and I love the fact that you don’t have to wear a suspender belt separately. It’s timeless and classy. 

Where you can buy it: The one I have, I purchased from a store in London a few years ago, but I have managed to find this sexy alternative. I particularly like this one as the back is just as sexy as the front; scroll over the pictures, you will see what I mean! As for the stockings, I like back, with black lace trim! 

Not your thing? Not everyone likes to wear a corset; feel free to browse the Kinky Angels lingerie range!

Green Dress, Heels

Outfit Number 5

Where I wore it; The first swinger club that S and I attended as a couple. It was in August, and restrictions were still in place, but we managed to squeeze in a visit in between lockdowns! 

Why I wore it: I wasn’t quite sure how full on it would be, what with restrictions being in place, so I decided to wear this tight olive-green number, as opposed to my usual PVC or lingerie. As it happens, I ended up stripping off! 

Where you can buy it: Now, you can get excellent body con dresses like this one from most high street stores. As for the shoes, I think I chose a pair of perspex heels. 

Not your thing? I often find that although I love wearing my stilettos heels, my feet are often killing me by the end of the night. If this sounds familiar, you could always opt for a pair of these. The slightly thicker heel makes walking and dancing a little easier whilst still looking sexy as hell! 

The Boots! 

I get sent so many questions on the boots that I wanted to make a detailed little segment on them! The boots that I wear, my beloved thigh-high boots, are probably my favourite sex/swinger/BDSM/fetish item that I own (even more so than my wand). I am totally in love with them, and once I put them on I feel complete! I think even if you aren’t a dominant woman in the bedroom, slipping your feet into a pair of these thigh hugging beauties will have you placing your hands on your hips and saying ‘Kneel’ before you have even zipped them up!

Rest assured, I’m going to make a dedicated post all about them, but in the meantime, if you do fancy experiencing the world from 6 inches above everyone else, then try these on for size! 

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