What Are The Benefits Of Swinger Chatrooms?

What Are The Benefits Of Swinger Chatrooms?Ok, I’ll be honest with you, a few weeks ago, before researching this topic, I was sceptical. After all, when it comes to swinging, I have a ‘hands-on’ approach.

However, we are currently still amid the coronavirus pandemic and swinging clubs, and swinger dates are strictly off-limits for the time being! So, with that being the case, we have to explore other avenues to get our kinky fixes…I give to you…The Swinger Chatroom! 

Here are my quick top tips on using swinger chat rooms:

  • If you are in a couple, then use swinger chatrooms together, it adds to the fun and allows you to share your fantasies! 
  • Always be respectful of others! Don’t pester other swingers for pictures or shame them when they share their fantasies or desires with you. 
  • Don’t send explicit pictures of yourself, sure you can share photos, but remember there’s a chance they can end up anywhere! 
  • Don’t give out your real names or numbers on chat groups where there are many members. If you want to connect with members privately, that’s fine, but share in private.
  • Stick to the rules, don’t get banned as soon as you start! Be a considerate user! 

Ok, I know that chatroom’s went out of fashion along with Myspace and Nokia3310’s in the early 2000s; however, they are making a comeback and more importantly, they now serve a purpose more than ever! After reading this article, you will go from sceptical swinger to chatroom champion, all you have to know is where to find the right ones! (that’s why I’m here!) 

And, if you read to the end, I’ll be sharing with you how you get involved in the swinger action RIGHT NOW! 

Why Do People Use Swinger Chatrooms? 

We live in an age of dating apps, hookups, fuck buddies, friends with benefits and very casual sex. Sites like Zoosk and ihookup and Grindr are popular and for a good reason. They allow you to contact other singles for naughty, easy, horny hookup sex. In fact, meeting people and chatting with them via these sites has become very popular indeed. They provide instant matches and meetings in any city, with any man or woman, regardless of your sexual orientation. But that’s all they tend to offer; perfectly regular sexual encounters. Yes, you may find kinky people, but chances are it will be reasonably straightforward A to B sex. What happens if you want to meet with a couple or a couple of couples?

Well if like me, and you’re looking for something a little more than a casual meet with a single person, you might wish to take your search to a more specialized website. Yes, you can use apps such as Tinder to chat with people, but if you’re a couple, the chances of scoring with a girl who’s up for a threesome are meagre! Let’s be honest, after some sexting and some pictures being exchanged; you probably want to discuss all things swinger! But if that person isn’t already in the lifestyle, herein lies the problem!

What you need is something a little more fitting to the swinging lifestyle.

When you start chatting on a swinger chatroom, you are exposed to loads of swingers from all areas of the lifestyle community. If you are seeking people to play with, you will find them here! Specialized swinger chatrooms offer excellent platforms for ladies, or gents in the lifestyle to schmooze, message and flirt, knowing that they are doing so with like-minded individuals.

Swingers are a very friendly bunch. We like to talk about our experiences, share in our stories, recommend different kinds of clubs and spill the sexy beans on what it is we like to get up to. When I attend a party or swinging event, I spend quite a while chatting to the hosts, other guests and new swingers as they come through the door. So why is this social activity so imperative to the swinging lifestyle I hear you ask? Well, I don’t know about you, but I can’t share the details of my swinger activities with my vanilla friends and family, but my swinger friends and I openly share in our favourite experiences. By chatting to other swingers online, you still get to experience the social aspect of the swinging lifestyle. I am always happy to share in my knowledge and point people in the direction of blogs, social media accounts or videos that I have found beneficial. 

What Are The Benefits? 

Aside from keeping us all safe; as we can’t physically mix with other people right now, using swinger chatrooms come with many benefits. Here are my top five reasons why swinger chatrooms are great! 

  • Swinger chatrooms allow you to build up your confidence when talking to other swingers. It can be daunting sharing your fantasies and ideas with your partner, let alone other swingers! By using a swinger chat room, you can familiarise yourself with flirting, chatting and discussing your wants with other people in the lifestyle. It can take some getting used to, sharing your innermost kinks, but if you do it over a chatroom, chances are you will feel a little bolder! I’m not saying you should share anything explicit, but flirting openly with another couple is great fun! 
  • Using a chatroom as a couple lets you practice flirting together. This is something that can take some getting used to, so by doing it online first; you will become comfortable with seeing your partner flirting with others. Don’t wait until you are in a club! Get practising now! 
  • Using chatrooms to flirt and discuss all things swinger is a lot cheaper than visiting a club. Some sites have a membership fee, but they will still be less expensive than a club membership. If you are new to swinging, I recommend spending time in a chatroom before you spend out on visiting a swinger club, as you want to be sure the lifestyle is for you! 
  • They allow you to explore new fantasies and ideas with your partner. If you are anything like me, you will probably be feeling very frustrated at the current lockdown situation. You can’t go out for dinner, never mind enjoy a night in a swingers club! However, a swinger chatroom does offer some light relief. You can enjoy an evening together, chatting with couples, getting turned on and exploring new ideas about what you would like to experience once lockdown is over. 
  • Chatrooms allow you the freedom of talking freely with other people who share your kinks and fetishes. If you have desires that are perhaps a little bit taboo or extreme, you may struggle to chat about them in regular swinger circles. If, for example, you enjoy golden showers, you might not be able to talk about this in a regular chatroom, whereas if you’re in a watersports chatroom, then fire away (excuse the pun).

How Swinger Chatrooms Work

As with most chatrooms, once you have made a registration, you can search by country, area and gender. However, with them being adult-themed, you can also add relationship status, sexuality and sexual desires. 

You could find local or international swingers, who enjoy the same kinks as you, or entirely different ones. You can chat with heterosexual couples, gay couples, and single bisexuals. You can find guys, girls and trans people who all actively enjoy the lifestyle and are wanting to share their swinger desires with you! 

In the past, I have used swinger chat rooms and conducted an international search, to find swinger couples in countries I have been travelling to! I do love finding South Asian swingers! 

You can also use them to find local swingers and swinger clubs close by! 

Where To Find Swinger Sites

So, where are these juicy little swinger sites? Where can I find all the hot swinger gossip? Don’t worry, I have a few suggestions right here, and if you continue reading to the end, I’ll be giving you a link to a very exclusive slice of the swinger action!  

If you want to make a swinger dating profile and chat, then I suggest joining either of these sites. Check them both out before you create a profile! Fab is a free site and offers a great introduction to the lifestyle. It has thousands of members all with unique profiles from across the globe and many different search options when looking for other swingers. I’m sure you will match with any number of users! It has a chat button located on the main menu, and the site is relatively straightforward to use. It’s not as extensive as other sites (you can only upload three pictures a day), but hey, it’s free! 

Creating a profile is quite simple, and there are plenty of profiles to look at to get a feel for what you want to include in yours! Please take a look at my guide on writing the perfect swinger dating profile

SDC is a paid site, and although you will be able to ‘sign up for free’ you will have to pay to subscribe. It’s a bit slicker than fab swingers and also has thousands of members. I have used both fab and SDC and enjoy them both! 

How To Get Involved In The Swinger Chatroom Action RIGHT NOW

If you want to chat with genuine swingers, which I hope you do, I have a neat little trick to get you started in the action! Soon you will be talking to swingers from the best clubs in the UK and abroad. Yes, I do have all the best swinger advice for you! 

Virtual Swingin brings thousands of sexy swingers from across the globe and connects them, virtually. It is hosted by the biggest and best premier clubs and by swinging virtually, you get a slice of the swinging action, in the comfort of your own home. Curious to find out more?  Click HERE to get started in the action!

I regularly join up with UK clubs to chat with newbies, first-time couples and swingles who join the virtual swinging chats! Plus there’s more than just chatting going on! You can find out about masterclasses, ask questions, get access to monthly exclusive content and ticketed events. Whether you’re into bdsm or bi-curious, there will be something and someone for you on virtual swingin! 

Don’t get all that on Tinder, do you?

So, are you feeling a little less sceptical and a bit more swinger savvy?

I do hope so! I shall see you there! Loves, Thiskindagirl! 

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