What Do Men Take To Swinger Parties?

What Do Men Take To Swinger Parties?You are probably thinking, why do I need a list of what to take to a swingers party? Surely there can’t be an awful lot more to take aside from condoms and myself? Right?
Your both right and wrong there guys, the most important thing you take should be condoms; however, you should consider so many other items! Before you head to a party, it’s worth getting clued up as to what’s hot and what’s not to take to a swingers party!

As well as your sexy selves, fellas, there are a few essential items that you should not attend a swingers party without carefully considering. Of course, you will already be taking the obvious; keys, money, condoms. But what else do you need?
The last thing you want to do is turn up underprepared!
It is worth bearing in mind that many clubs and events don’t allow phones inside as they operate a strict no pictures policy. So do be prepared to hand it over to the reception, where they will usually place it in a locker for you.

Viagra

I have dated guys who have used viagra when attending parties, and from what I’ve learnt over the years, there are a number of men who take viagra when swinging. You can buy viagra over the counter at many pharmacies, and I do recommend that you always speak to a medical professional before you take it. I know that you can also purchase it online, but again, I’d be cautious of taking anything you haven’t discussed with a pharmacist. I know that some varieties are a lot longer lasting than others, so be realistic when making a choice! Yes, you may get an erection for 36 hours, but do you really need this?

Vape

I have included this because I find that many people are put off but swingers that smoke. Whether you are a smoker or not can be a deciding factor when people are choosing play partners. When I first started swinging, you either smoked or you didn’t, and vapes weren’t an option. But now, as smoking becomes more socially unacceptable, it makes good sense to take along a vape instead of cigarettes. I’m not saying you won’t be able to swing if you smoke but do bear in mind that it can be an important deciding factor. For me, smoking is not a problem, but it has come up in conversation with other swingers a lot over the years. I have found that when couples are choosing who they will or won’t play with, smokers or non-smokers is sometimes a deciding factor. It is so important that most swinger websites require you to declare whether you smoke! Maybe taking along a vape would be easier?

Sprays

Taking along a small, travel-sized bottle of deodorant or aftershave makes good sense. Especially if you plan on playing for a while, sometimes freshening up during a party is a good idea, but don’t overdo it!

Condoms

Probably your most essential item. Condoms! I know you will of thought about this one, but I had to write about it! For me, the more, the merrier. It doesn’t matter if you plan on having a full swap with lots of different people, or you have softer limits; if you’re going to put your dick anywhere, make sure it’s safe!


Also, condoms can easily be made into barriers for performing oral sex on women, simply open the condom, snip the closed end off, open it out, and use it as a rectangular-shaped guard.
Unsure about what size or type to go for? I usually choose a premium brand, large size. Avoid ribbed, coloured, flavoured or anything else. Please keep it simple. I, for one, am not a fan of bright red or blue condoms; they really don’t appeal! It’s worth noting that quite a lot of people are allergic to latex, so taking along latex-free condoms might be a good idea. That way, they can be used by everyone!

Lubricant

A small bottle of water-based lubricant. I like to take a little, travel-size bottle of lube with me, as I find it so helpful. The last thing you want is to risk the condom you are using getting ripped or torn! I always recommend using a water-based lube as they are suitable for most skin types. Check out the great tasting range from World Of Risque. Having things like lube and condoms to hand just makes good practice. Any guy who is safety conscious gets a tick from me!

A Change Of Clothes

If you are anything like most men, you will turn up dressed ready for the party, in that you won’t then go and get changed once you are there.
However, you might turn up to the party in your play attire with your coat over the top (easy if you have driven there yourselves), or you might get changed once you are there. It depends really on the type of event. If it is a BDSM sub/dom event, or a fetish night, It is understandable that you may wish to get changed into your outfit once there!
Or you may decide to turn up ready to party in your finest PVC!
Whatever you decide, take some regular clothes to put on at the end of the night.
Most clubs and events have lockers and cloakrooms where you can leave your clothes and belongings and collect them at the end of the night.

Swimwear

If a party has a hot tub, sauna or pool, it may be a wise idea to take along some towels and your swimwear. Yes, I’m sure skinny dipping will be encouraged, but imagine if you were the only one naked! Some clubs do provide towels, but always check first before you visit!

Spare Underwear!

It’s not just women that may need a spare pair of knickers! Now, I hate to generalise, but I have lived and partied with enough men to notice this one trait that they all seem to possess. You know how men take off their clothes and leave them discarded on the floor, without any real thought? Well, it is no different in a swingers club! I have lost count of the number of times that my boyfriend has got undressed in a club, and then an hour or so later, gone back to find his clothes, to only discover that his boxers and socks look exactly like all the other guy’s boxers and socks? (also discarded on the floor) Taking along another pair of socks or boxers isn’t a bad idea. Plus, if you want to shower and get dressed back into your regular clothes at the end of the night, you may wish to change your underwear. So sometimes, taking along some spares can be helpful!

Some Form Of ID

Some clubs and events ask you to provide a picture ID when you first attend so that they can create a membership card for you. If you have signed up online and submitted a profile of yourselves, they need to make sure you are who you say you are! Also, they will need to check your age. As you can imagine, your face must be a match for the ID and your application. Always be conscious of the rules when attending an event, and if they insist on seeing ID, then take it along!

Hand Sanitiser

Again, not the sexiest of items, and for the love of God, don’t get it mixed up with the lube bottle! But, trust me, a small squirt of hand sanitiser, especially after enjoying some intimate acts, is a must. Plus, you want to be a considerate and safe swinger.

Male Sex Toys

You may be thinking, why would I take a sex toy along to a swingers party when I can get the real deal? But, bear with me!
There have been several swinger couples I have met over the years who have enjoyed the lifestyle, but not in the conventional sense. In fact, for many couples, it’s pretty common for only the woman to play whilst the man watches. Voyeurism is really popular and if this is your thing, then attending a swingers party is a great way to facilitate this! Taking along a male masturbator to use may seem a little daunting at first, but if it’s a smaller party or more intimate gathering, you may feel comfortable using one.
Or, you may decide to take along a cock ring, and vibrating cock rings are popular for a good reason! They keep you harder for longer and stimulate the clitoris whilst being used.

What Not To Take To Swingers Parties

I’m sure I don’t need to tell you that taking along or using drugs at swinger parties is risky business! Sure you may enjoy the odd bit of cocaine, or a spliff on a night out, but when you are swinging, the last thing you want is to jeopardise your chances by taking drugs with you. Some clubs are really strict with their policies and if they suspect you are carrying drugs, or have used drugs, you won’t be allowed to enter. Remember, if you have taken drugs, and the guests around you haven’t, you are going to stick out!

Whatever you decide to take, or not, to a swingers party, always have condoms and lube to hand! These two items should be your priority! Don’t want your pockets stuffed full of condoms? Keep them tidy and easy to access in this neat little tin I found from World Of Risque. It comes ready with two inside! It will slip easily in your pocket, meaning you won’t be fumbling around in the dark!

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