What Meeting A Dominatrix Is Really Like

What Meeting A Dominatrix Is Really Like. A while ago, S and I had the pleasure of serving a professional Dominatrix. The experience was so fulfilling that I find myself unable to resist sharing it with you. 

The shared fantasies, the search, the initial chat, the build-up and then meeting her; the whole experience has left me begging for more!

So, here for you, is What Meeting A Dominatrix Is Really Like. In this post, you will discover all the inside information and seriously sexy scenarios that we experienced. So, if you are on your best behaviour, I shall begin. 

Why We Chose To Play With A Professional Dominatrix 

You may be aware that I am quite Dominant myself, and within mine and S’s relationship; I am the boss. I don’t need any encouragement to slip on my thigh-high boots, and likewise, S needs no instruction to zip said boots up. 

So why then did we decide to splash out on a pro-Dominatrix? The simple answer was that we wanted to enjoy being submissive together with someone who knew exactly what they were doing and was happy to be dominant with a bisexual woman. 

We didn’t have an awful lot of time, due to other commitments and knew that a professional domme would be able to give us the specific experience we were after as she would view us as paying clients.

Sharing Our Fantasies 

One weekend afternoon, S and I were sprawled out on the bed, our eyes half-closed, our bodies feeling satisfied. When I turned to him and said

‘I’d like us both to be dominated together.’

S smiled at me, his sleepy brown eyes suddenly playful. 

‘By a pro Domme?’ he asked. 

‘Yes, a bisexual one’ I replied. 

Meeting Our Mistress 

We decided to meet a bisexual mistress who was happy to play with a bisexual couple and push our boundaries (S is very happy to be penetrated too) and set about our search. Our chosen Mistress, Mistress Melia was recommended to us by another Dominatrix, who told us this particular Domme was comfortable domming couples because she identified as Bi. 

After several email exchanges, (where we stated that we were an experienced swinger couple who also enjoy BDSM play. And would it be possible we could serve you both Mistress pretty please, we will do anything for you?) She emailed to say yes she would be happy to have us clients, and please could we write down a list of things we would like to experience and what scenarios would we like to explore with her?

This was so she could gain a more in-depth insight into what we wanted to gain from serving her. We happily obliged, (I love a good list) and we set to work drawing up a shortlist of potential kinky fantasy scenarios we wanted to make a reality.

We arranged an initial phone consultation for one evening in the week leading up to the play session. 

At 7 pm on the Wednesday night S and I nervously dialled her number, the phone set to speaker. As soon as she answered, my heart jumped! She sounded so…normal and so excited and genuinely happy to be talking to us! 

She asked us about our relationship, how long we had been together, and the dynamics between us. She asked me what I was comfortable with, and how far was each of us willing to go. We told her about our desires to have our boundaries pushed, and shared with her the sex acts S and I like to perform on one another. 

I looked at my list, written on my official Thiskindagirl whiteboard and felt like a massive pervert. 

It read like this:

S rimming? Spit roast? Me/Him. Spitting. Slapping. Yes. Hair pulling no. Safe sex- ATM-only with condoms. 

The Day Of The Play Session

Before meeting her, S and I had discussed what sex toys we would be taking, and Mistress Melia had requested a picture of all our toys that we would be bringing along (that would later be laid out ready for use, precisely as she had requested). In our bag we packed our favourite strapless strap on, stockings and suspenders for him, black knickers for me, lube, vibrators and butt plugs, our favourite floggers as well as nipple clamps, and a selection of dildos. (we are enthusiasts)

As I soaked in the hotel bathtub the bubbles caressing my skin, S laid each item out as instructed. After bathing and applying a small amount of makeup, I pulled on my black knickers and fastened the strap on my satin stilettos. Part of our fantasy was for S to meet with her downstairs in the hotel bar, whilst I remained in the room, in nervous anticipation.

An Espresso Martini that we had delivered to the room, and was placed next to her ‘tribute’. As S kissed me goodbye and closed the hotel door, I crossed the room and nervously kneeled on the bed. The butterflies in my stomach were going crazy. I couldn’t believe we were making what seemed like a fantasy only weeks ago an actual reality. My phone buzzed. It was S telling me they were on their way upstairs. I was throbbing and desperate and scared, but so very excited! 

The hotel room door opened. I took her in. Her pale skin, her curled red hair, polished nails, her small face and brown eyes. She wore long boots and a coat that fastened up the front, almost military style. She took my face in her hands and smiled. It was a smile that I give S when I too am in control. And I felt completely at her mercy.

Whilst S got changed in the bathroom, we spoke about how I was feeling and how the session would go. Talking to her on the phone had been an absolute pleasure, but in person, it was pure delight. She was so sincere, so genuine and so charming. S came to join us, and she reminded us about the use of safewords and stopping play should we need to. 

She then slipped off her coat and boots and headed into the bathroom herself. 

On her return, the play session started. S and I were tasked with lacing up her gorgeous platform stilettos which we did, and tied the ribbon in a neat bow. 

Kitty and Slut

She told us to both kneel. She informed us that I was to be referred to as Kitty, and S, as Slut for the session’s duration. 

After setting out a few ground rules, and a little light spanking for me, she began to examine the selection of toys we had brought with us. 

I had specifically requested that I wished to be blindfolded and bound before being ‘used’ and I was thrilled when Mistress selected the blindfold and a large amount of rope. Sure enough, I was soon tied up and blindfolded whilst being flogged and spanked, every so often S was allowed to perform oral on me, and I on him. 

She used a range of toys on us including vibrators, nipple suction clamps and my favourite; a huge strap on. 

With expert hands, she fashioned a harness out of rope for me, and for two glorious hours, I was her submissive little kitty at her feet, eager and willing to serve her in every way possible.  

As the session drew to an end, I found myself on all fours with S underneath me, having just orgasmed on his face. Mistress Melia untied me from my rope harness, and she referred to me by my actual name. 

I looked up at her, and then at S, who was licking his lips, grinning. 

I felt dazed, and without speaking, I stretched my arms out towards S who pulled me into his chest. 

‘Thankyou’ I murmured. 

Mistress then set about tidying away her rope and floggers as S, and I steadily got dressed. We had a reservation for dinner that night so had to get ourselves smartened up!  

She turned to us both and asked if everything had been as we had expected. 

‘Yes, more than I had expected’ I replied, S nodded in agreement. 

She kissed us both on the cheek to say good night and left us to reconnect together. 

S was stood in front of the full-length mirror, buttoning his shirt. I called out his name, took a few steps and jumped, rather unexpectedly into his arms. He caught me (thank god), and we kissed like teenagers. 

‘I can’t believe we actually did that!’ I exclaimed 

‘I know, and I would have been quite happy just to watch’ He admitted. 

‘I can’t wait to write about this’ I said. 

‘ I cant wait to eat’ He replied.

My Top Tips For Playing With A Prodomme

Prodommes will work hard to make their client feel relaxed and content. Yes, she may be offering humiliation and torture, but she will also take time to build up a good rapport with you. Always make sure you feel completely at ease, talking to her and discussing your needs.

Exchanging money is always a little bit awkward, it’s one of those essential things, but people don’t like talking about. A good Dominatrix will address the money or tribute transaction with ease.

Don’t expect your Mistress to perform sex acts on you, or allow you to perform them on her. Yes, mistresses are in the sex industry but are not sex workers as such. They are doing a job and are not there for sex.

Most Mistresses operate out of a specialised dungeon and offer play sessions within them. If you can’t meet in a dungeon, then a nice hotel is a good option. Understand that a Mistress will not come to your house, and you will not meet her at hers!

Before you book a session, have a look online at the type of sessions a woman offers. What role is she willing to take on? Medical play? School Mistress? What does she offer as a speciality? And how does she prefer her subs to be? Doing some research first will give you a greater insight into what to expect.

Mistress Melia

Mistress Melia is a professional dominatrix who is based in Brighton but also travels to Bristol. Her specialities include; Cross Dressing, Roleplay, CBT, Chastity, Bondage, Foot Fetish and Corporal Punishment. She is happy to play with couples and women. She has access to a number of dungeons and all manner of devices!

Website mistressmelia.co.uk

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