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Who Is This kinda girl?
Who Is This Kinda Girl?Ah, the elusive thiskindagirl!
What a rare and exquisite specimen! You have probably found my Instagram, checked out my YouTube channel, and now you find yourself here, on thiskindagirl.com, poised, with a cup of tea and a half-eaten custard cream in your hand thinking, ‘Who is this girl? Where did she come from, and what is she all about?’ Well, there are a lot of places that you can view my work. If you click here, you get them all in one place.
So, let’s find out, Who Is This kinda girl?
First up, I’m going to tell you what I’m not because sometimes, people do seem to think I’m either 1) For sale or 2) eagerly awaiting explicit pictures or their anatomy.
Now, I believe that sex work is valid work, and I support sex workers and think they do a fantastic job; however, if you think that I provide this type of service, you are very much mistaken, sorry!
Secondly, thank you for taking the time to send me a close up picture of your genitalia. I’m not sure what you were hoping to achieve by doing this, and I shall be deleting it, but crikey! What a conversation starter!
Ok, so, down to the serious stuff…
Thiskindagirl is the home of smart, sexy swinging advice.
I have always been a curious girl; it started off with the normal stuff, you know, the natural world, culture, food, books, but then as I grew older, my curiosity spread to things of a more adult nature; alternative relationships, human sexuality, sex, drugs, and David Bowie.
Once I gained a deeper understanding of human behaviour and why we are driven to do what we do, I wanted to use my knowledge to enhance and understand my increasingly alternative lifestyle!
I started thiskindagirl.com because I wanted to help other people navigate their way successfully around the heavily stigmatised world of swinging.
There are many misconceptions about who swingers are and what they enjoy, and I wanted to banish those myths; we don’t all throw our car keys in a bowl, we don’t all ‘swap wifes’, and we certainly don’t all sport moustaches and smoke Montecristo’s.
Thiskindagirl was born out of a desire to share with people honest advice about swinging, alternative relationships, human nature and show how you can get involved in The Lifestyle.
All the topics I write about, I have experienced first hand. From being upside down on a sex swing to shamed on a first date- it’s all here!
One of the joys of living in London is that it’s an incredibly inclusive city and here, I can express my sexuality without fear of being judged. (unless you are a particularly rude Canadian I went on a date with a few years ago!) Nowhere is more open to people who identify as LGBT+, than the centre of Soho.
I am always looking to further my knowledge surrounding sex, couples, human nature and dynamics within relationships. Part of my research is done by visiting swinger clubs, sex shops, reviewing adult dating sites, providing consultations, coaching sessions, consulting for adult companies and offering my expertise.
I live and breathe swinging 24/7!
But, before you start learning how to swing successfully, let me share with you a little more about me!
You might be interested to know that I’m not actually from London, and hail from the North of England. (I sound like a sexy Sean Bean) I found myself in London seven years ago, fell in love with the city, and a few of its inhabitants, and haven’t left!
I haven’t always been a kink writer, and in fact, my primary industry was hospitality, but when the coronavirus struck, I suddenly found myself with too much time on my hands.
Having studied English previously and being the creative, kinky type that I am, I set about creating Thiskindagirl.
I find humans fascinating! And, as a result of this, I spent two years travelling to remote parts of South Asia, backpacking and expanding my curious mind. Whilst living with different tribes in remote parts of North East India, I gained a more in-depth insight into human nature and the unrealistic expectations that we, in our society, place on ourselves and our loved ones!
I have always identified as Bisexual, and in the past, have dated straight men, gay women and fellow Bisexuals. I knew that deep down, I wasn’t happy only having sex with men. Swinging seemed like a natural progression. That was over 8 years ago now, and I haven’t regretted my decision since!
Although I have experienced my own fair share of heartbreak, sadness and pain, I have always remained true to myself and my desires.
Having been through some truly awful breakups, I am now in a position where I am stronger than I ever was before. I have realised that I don’t need anyone to succeed in life.The greatest relationship a person can have is with themselves.
I am also a relationship counsellor and offer this service to couples and singles alongside my swinger lifestyle coaching. One of the reasons I decided to become a counsellor was because I wanted to understand why I do what I do when I’m in a relationship. Let’s just say it’s been a journey of self-discovery!
Sometimes people say I am too defensive, and I guess that is true, but when you are passionate about your values, you defend them!
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Here, Just For Fun, Are 5 Facts About Thiskindagirl.com
- I am naturally a redhead, but I regularly change up my look/ style to keep it fresh and keep you all guessing!
- I’m a massive fan of Fleetwood mac
- I’m obsessed with Yorkshire Tea!
- I don’t know my left from my right
- I once cooked dinner for Arnold Schwarzenegger and Sylvester Stallone.