This is the ultimate guide for sexy, smart swingers.

We are all told, ‘live life to the fullest’

I believe we are all here to do just that.

This is the ultimate guide for sexy, smart, swingers.

I have always been a curious girl, and once I gained a deeper understanding of human behaviour and why we are driven to do what we do, I wanted to use my knowledge to enhance my alternative lifestyle!

Now, after many delicious years of research, I can share with you what inspires me in this crazy world. 

But, before you start reading about how to swing successfully, let me first introduce myself…

So, who is Thiskindagirl?

First up, I’m afraid I can’t disclose my real name, due to the nature of my blog so, for now, I shall simply refer to myself as ‘your favourite girl’.

You might be interested to know that I’m not actually from London, and hail from the North of England. (I sound like a sexy Sean Bean) I found myself in London seven years ago, fell in love with the city, and a few of its inhabitants, and haven’t left!

I haven’t always been a kink writer, and in fact, my main industry is hospitality, but when the coronavirus struck, I suddenly found myself with too much time on my hands and, having studied English in the past, and being the creative type that I am, I set about creating Thiskindagirl.

All the topics I write about, I have experienced first hand.

One of the joys of living in London is that its an incredibly inclusive city and here, I am able to express my sexuality without fear of being judged. Nowhere is more open to people who identify as LGBT+, than the centre of Soho.

I am always looking to further my knowledge surrounding sex, couples, human nature and dynamics within relationships. I find humans fascinating! And, as a result of this, I spent two years travelling to remote parts of South Asia, backpacking and expanding my curious mind.

Whilst living with different tribes in remote parts of North East India, I gained a deeper insight into human nature and the unrealistic expectations that we, in our society place on ourselves and our loved ones! Suddenly I realised, there is another way to live…I decided to bring non-monogamy back to the great British public!

So I suppose you could say I’m a kinky armature anthropologist?

I have always identified as Bisexual, and in the past have dated men, women and fellow Bisexuals. I knew that a monogamous relationship wasn’t right for me, and although I had been in monogamous relationships before, I knew that deep down I wasn’t happy only having sex with men. Swinging seemed like a natural progression. That was over 8 years ago now, and I haven’t regretted my decision since!

As much as you will ever get to see!

Although I have experienced my own fair share of heartbreak, sadness and pain, I have always remained true to myself and my desires. Having been through some truly awful breakups, I am now in a position where I am stronger than I ever was before. I have realized that I don’t need anyone to succeed in life.

The greatest relationship a person can have is with themselves. Sometimes people say I am too defensive, and I guess that is true, but when you are passionate about your values, you defend them!

Here are 5 fun facts about your favorite girl

  • I am naturally a redhead, but regularly change up my look/ style to keep it fresh!
  • I’m a massive fan of Fleetwood mac
  • I hate coffee!
  • I don’t know my left from my right
  • I once went on a date with a guy who later described me as ‘a bit of an animal’

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