We humans really do give ourselves a hard time.

Let’s ask some questions…

Why I Chose To Be A Sexy, Smart, Swinger.

Why do people do what they do?  Are we all slaves to our most basic intimate needs and desires? And what impact do these desires have on our lifestyles and relationships?  Do you gain from them, and grow and discover an alternative approach? Or do you find yourself asking the same questions, being confronted by the same frustrations?

After all, we aren’t taught this stuff at a young age, instead, we are taught to follow a moral compass, an appropriate guide to life, whereby we are governed by a set of social ideals and not human nature, which I believe is dismissed for the large part. However, I understand that we can’t all act upon our instincts all the time, it simply wouldn’t be progressive.

But there is a solution.

Once I started to understand why we do what we do, I wanted to use my new-found knowledge to enrich and explore my already increasingly alternative sex life. Swinging seemed like a natural progression, and once I understood how the human mind and body responds to these situations I was able to put my fears to one side and enjoy, in all its glory!

Now, having spent a good few years indulging my kinks, and getting to grips with what’s hot and what’s not in the swinging world,  I want to share with you the complete guide to sexy, smart swinging. Soon you will be seductive, savvy and in the know.

Are you curious about swinging, but don’t know where to start?

Perhaps non-monogamy and open relationships have always interested you, but you’re not sure where to begin?

It can be difficult to find the right information and know what questions to ask!

Where can you find out about swinger clubs if not part of the scene?

Don’t worry, that’s why I am here!

Starting Swinging shouldn’t be causing you stress! Sit back and let Thiskindagirl do all the talking. Let me teach you how to be a smart, sexy swinger.

I share with you my real-life experiences, top tips and smart swinger hacks as well as club reviews and practical informative articles! All my advice is written from the female perspective to provide insight into what swinging is really like for women! I’ll take you from nervous newbie to sophisticated swinger in no time!

Enjoy! xx

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