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First Time Swingers 

My workshops for first-time swingers are suitable for men and women, couples or singles. However you identify, regardless of your sexuality, if you want to learn about swinging, this is a great place to start. From walking into a club for the first time to dealing with jealousy and insecurity, whatever fears and reservations you may have, I’m here to help you. 

First-time swingers are something of a speciality of mine; I pride myself on being approachable and non-judgemental. Please don’t be shy; I’m here to help you! 

How To Overcome Jealousy When Swinging

One of the most popular subjects I am asked for advice on is ‘how do I overcome jealousy?’ When giving a jealousy workshop, I use my real-life insights and experiences to demonstrate how to overcome jealousy. 

I used to be a jealous and insecure person; now, I’m the one giving the advice. Want to find out how I did it? Come join me for a workshop on overcoming jealousy! 

How To Overcome Anxiety When Swinging? 

From performance anxiety to body confidence to feeling under pressure, anxiety can be very overwhelming. Starting swinging is nerve-wracking enough, without feeling anxious about it. In my workshops, we will explore common fears amongst swingers, boost your confidence, and create the right mindset for owning your sexuality and desires! If you are worried about the size and shape of your dick, how you will compare to other people, or if you are feeling anxious about your sexual performance, this workshop will help you put your fears to one side so you can get on with getting it on! 

How To Find Swingers And Swinger Clubs

By far one of the most popular questions that I receive. 

Dear Thiskindgirl, where can I find swingers? 

In my how to find swingers and swinger clubs workshop, I will share the most popular, tried and trusted websites, clubs, communities, and dating apps you can use to find swingers. 

Some sites you may have heard of, but are they suitable for first-time swingers? Where can you find fetish and kink communities? What clubs are out there? And which ones should you avoid? Reviewing swinger clubs and swinger dating sites is something of a speciality of mine, so let me teach you all I know before you waste your time and money on a site or club that isn’t going to give you what you’re after. 

Swinger Dating Profile Masterclass

When it comes to writing a great swinger dating profile, many people struggle with what to write and have no idea how to write an enticing and engaging profile that will get them noticed. 

Luckily, writing and swinging are two areas in which I’m quite accomplished, so if you struggle with the about me section on your dating profile, come and join my masterclass. If you have joined a site but aren’t having much luck, that may be down to your profile. Let me share my top hints and tips with you and teach you how to be appealing to other swingers online. 

From what pictures to upload to how to write that first message, learn from someone who’s seen a lot of profiles (good and bad) over the years! 

Starting Strap On Sex Masterclass

A topic that many people are curious to find out more about! In my starting strap on sex masterclass, I give you the low down on all things dildo. From who uses strap ons and why? To how they can be used in swinger situations? Which are the best to use? And can you get them from? 

I regularly receive questions asking for advice on how to talk to your partner about strap on sex and how to get started. Expect frank, honest advice for men and women. 

Starting Swinging For Men 

So many guys want to get involved in the swinger lifestyle but are not sure how. If you have been wondering how to start in the lifestyle or haven’t had much success, you need to listen up! 

My workshops on starting swinging for men cover topics such as:

Online communication, 

How to be appealing to other swingers, 

Different types of swinger dynamics you may encounter, 

How to be confident in swinger situations, 

How to make a great online profile. 

Starting Swinging For Women

I know that starting swinging can be really daunting. Trust me; I have been in your situation! My workshop for starting swinging for women will give you an insight into how you can be the smart, sexy swinger woman you want to be. I talk about:

The reality of being a woman at a swinger event,


Drawing up rules and boundaries,

Staying safe,

What to wear.

I share my top tips on how to be confident and how to stop self-comparison. I talk about what it’s like to be a single female in a club and why women hold all the cards! 

Attending Swinger Parties As A Single Person 

Yes, single people can be swingers! Yes, they can get involved! This workshop will teach you how to navigate swinger parties as a single person and how you can find events and clubs that are open to single people joining! Swinging is daunting enough, never mind being alone in a club! Luckily attending events as a single person is something that I know about. My workshop is for both men and women, and I share with you how to create the right mindset to get the most out of clubs and events. I also talk about staying safe in clubs and how to approach couples as a single person. 

How To Talk About Starting Swinging? 

In this masterclass, I share what it is like to have a conversation about starting swinging with your partner and their possible responses. It’s entirely normal for people to feel threatened, worried or apprehensive when they hear the S word for the first time! 

In this workshop, I share my own experiences of having that conversation and how I went from my initial reservations and worries to now giving advice! Talking about starting swinging is scary, but with my help, it doesn’t have to be! 

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